How can I submit a picture? from Anonymous
My fiance has performance anxiety and I have been trying to work through it to no avail. I have a high sex drive and I love him dearly but not having sex is driving me crazy, It probably sounds selfish but I have been so crazy horny I can't handle it, I don't want to masturbate in case it upsets him. Any advice on how I can help him realise how much I need him sexually? Words don't seem to work and I've tried to 'be sexy' and nothing seems to work :( any advice would be much appreciated. :) from Anonymous
You can try to reinforce his self-confidence with little sex-games not including any performance from him.
You should also consider masturbation, with or without his help, it’s not a bad thing to masturbate when you are in couple. He should also try to masturbate alone or with you, it can make him feel more in control and more confident during the intercourse.