for all the females who are only experiencing sex for the first time recently and are scared they can't orgasm, i promise it's normal. orgasms are intimidating when you've never had one and you don't know what to expect, and all those insecurities and fears and nervousness are what prevent it from happening. once you really let go, and especially after you finally do experience it, they start happening a lot easier and a lot more often. it just takes time and learning your body. from arasx
Hi. I'm 18 and have been active for about a year in a half now(or so). Why don't I know that I've cum until I see it? I feel weird for not being able to feel it "( from Anonymous
The most important thing is that you feel pleasure while doing it…
Maybe a boy could answer better than me to this question ?
hi, um i found out my bf of 2 years had been lying to me about watching porn & the sort of porn he watches. He said he hasnt watched it since we've been together which i found out wasnt true. we dont have sex much anymore because he works & goes out with friends a lot (we're 17). It seems he watches porn more than he wants sex with me & then always expects me to do everything but never gives anything in return. I've lost my confidence in trust & in myself. he just deletes history on his laptop:( from Anonymous
To me, watching porn is ok, almost everybody watch porn. The problem is that he lied to you and made you lost confidence. You should speak calmly to him about how you feel and find a solution together if both of you care about your couple.
my boyfriend and I have recently started getting into sexual things and well he tried to eat me out and rubbed my clit and fingered me but I'm just not getting off.... when I masturbate I rub my clit and I can get off with a bit of effort but alltogether I'm just tough to get off.. is this weird? from Anonymous
Not at all, it’ll get easier with some practice.
I've been with my boyfriend from 6 months and we havent had sex yet. I want to do it and he's not pushing me or something but I think its too soon to have sex. what should I do? from Anonymous
If you think it’s too soon than it is. Don’t make anything unless you really feel comfortable with it.
Do you masterbate? from Anonymous
Of course, who doesn’t? An orgasm a day keeps the doctor away ;)